Ask Yourself Better Questions

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  • General Questions:

    • What would I like?

    • What do I want?

    • What am I thinking?

    • Why am I choosing to think this?

    • How does this thought feel?

    • What thought is causing the way I feel right now?

    • What is perfect about this?

    • How do I want to feel?

    • What is funny about this? (In a situation that is perceived to be bad)

    • How can we make this more fun?

    • What can I give?

    • What can I learn from this?

    • What is the solution to this problem?

    • What is the good news?

    • How can I grow from this?

    • What can I do today that will make it more fun than ever before?

    • What will create a breakthrough in my life?

    • What is possible?

    • How can I expand from this?

    • If they can do it, how can I do it?

    • What can I take from this experience that can empower me?

    • What can I learn from this so I never have to experience it again?

    • What is the actual benefit from this I hadn’t noticed?

    • I wonder what will happen today that will create total pleasure for no reason?

    • What am I excited for?

    • What am I proud of?

    • What am I happy for?

    • What am I grateful for?

    • How can I make this happen right now more powerfully than I ever dreamed of & have fun doing it?

    • What can I focus on to find the best solution?

    • What can I do to help change this?

    • How can I add even more value?

    • What am I grateful for?

    • How can I look at this differently and learn from it?

  • Physical / Health:

    • What foods can I eat that taste good and are good for me?

    • What foods can I eat that will make me feel great and give me lasting energy?

    • How can I exercise and lose weight while having fun?

    • What activities can I do right now that will help me be healthy?

    • What resources do I have access to that will help me be healthy?

    • How do I lose weight and keep it off?

    • If (say the name of the person you would like to has similar results as) can do it, how can I do it as well?

    • How will being healthy affect important people in my life?

  • Prosperity:

    • How can I create multiple streams of income and have fun doing it?

    • What resources do I have access to to create wealth?

    • How can I save money and enjoy the process?

    • How can I automate my wealth?

    • Who is prosperous and how can I model what they are doing?

    • How can I add more value to people's lives to become wealthy?

    • How can I pay off my debt and enjoy the process?

    • What can I do right now to have fun and build wealth?

  • Business & Profession:

    • What can I do right now to create my dream job?

    • What will create a breakthrough in my business or career?

    • What skills do I need to develop to bring the most value to the workplace?

    • What can I focus on to find the best solution?

    • What can I do today that will create massive value for my company/business/job/clients?

    • What is possible? (Entrepreneurs, Business Owners)

    • How do I create more value for my clients?

    • What about my work excites me and gets me energized for the day?

    • What does success mean to me?

    • How can I be more resourceful when it comes to this?

    • How else can I get there?

    • Who can I help today?

    • Who can help me achieve my goals faster & easier while having more fun?

    • How can I do more by doing less?

    • Who will this impact?

    • How will this impact others?

    • Who are my WOW clients?

    • Is the world a better place because of what I am doing?

  • Relationships:

    • How can I show my partner love?

    • How can I communicate clearly and effectively with my (partner, parent, friend, etc.)

    • What can I give in this relationship?

    • What is working in this relationship?

    • What can I take from this experience that can empower me?

    • What one thing can I do to make this relationship better?

    • What is the actual benefit from this I hadn’t noticed? (breakup/split/divorce/falling out)

    • What is important to me in this relationship?

    • What does love mean for me?

    • How can I be a better listener?

    • How can I love myself better?

    • How else can I say “I love you”?

    • How do I contribute unconditional love in the life of others?

    • How can I better connect with other people everyday?

    • How can I put a smile on _(partners, friends, loved ones)_ face right now?

  • Spiritual:

    • How can I connect with myself on a deeper level right now?

    • What can I do today to be more connected?

    • How can I expand from this?

    • Where does my happiness come from?

    • How do I contribute unconditional love in the life of others?

    • How can I better connect with other people everyday?

    • What does love mean for me?

    • What one thing can I do today to get closer to (enlightenment/the universe/God(s)/myself)?

    • What inspires me?

  • Mind / Intellect:

    • What can I learn from this experience?

    • What is one thing I can do today to better myself?

    • How can I better myself today?

    • What is one thing I can do right now that will make me smarter?

    • How can I expand from this?

    • What one thing can I do today to be better prepared for _____?

    • What gets my creativity flowing?

    • What can I do today to be more creative?

    • What can I do right now to push myself  to become better?

  • Personal & Social:

    • What is an activity I can do that is fun and will introduce me to like minded people?

    • What hobbies can I pick up that involves interaction with others?

    • Where can I go that will entertain me right now?

    • What is one thing I can do that will make me laugh right now?